Author Topic: No Trivia Today (Read 3781 times)

Wild Dog · « **on:** August 23, 2009, 09:06:33 am »

Sorry folks. After trying for too long and not succeeding, my wife and I are seperating. She and the kids are moving to Houston today and it's my last day to spend with my son for a while. I can live without her but being apart from him is ripping my heart apart. This thread should probably be in the Beer and Queso but I didn't want anyone waiting around for me. I'll be back next Sunday and it should be a good one since I have nothing to do all week but research.

Ron Brand · « **Reply #1 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:08:16 am »

I'm so sorry to hear this, Wild Dog. I hope everything works out as well as it possibly can.

HudsonHawk · « **Reply #2 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:10:16 am »

Sorry to hear this. Hang in there.

Ty in Tampa · « **Reply #3 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:13:33 am »

Very sorry. Take care.

David in Jackson · « **Reply #4 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:23:07 am »

So sorry to hear this. Hang in there.

dirty steve · « **Reply #5 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:56:08 am »

good luck to you and your family. hopefully everything works out.

SaltyParker · « **Reply #6 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:56:32 am »

Never a good situation but things have a way of working out for the better. Take care of yourself.

Mr. Happy · « **Reply #7 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:01:04 am »

Having been a veteran of two divorces, both of which were my fault, my only pieces of advice are (1) be easy on yourself for a while-this is a major change and is very stressful and (2) never speak ill of the mom to the children. I wish that someone had given me this advice.

JimR · « **Reply #8 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:04:57 am »

So sorry, Dale. I agree totally with Mr. Happy. Take the high road, and remember that your son loves his mother. Come see me.

Fredia · « **Reply #9 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:06:17 am »

sorry. nothing else i can say

Col. Sphinx Drummond · « **Reply #10 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:07:19 am »

Sorry to hear that. Yeah, and hang in there, take care, good luck, all that.

strosrays · « **Reply #11 on:** August 23, 2009, 11:04:31 am »

Always sorry to hear of this sort of thing, regardless of the details.

I will say, having gone through it as a kid, the bast thing the parents can ever do for thir children is not inject their personal feelings into the child's perception of the other parent. That can cause damage that never gets completely repaired.

Meantime, take care of yourself, and do what you need to, to get free.

Craig · « **Reply #12 on:** August 23, 2009, 03:37:29 pm »

I'm really sorry to hear that, Wild Dog. Good luck, and I hope it works out better for you in the long run.

BUWebguy · « **Reply #13 on:** August 23, 2009, 04:56:24 pm »

Sorry to hear that; thoughts and prayers are with you.

DVauthrin · « **Reply #14 on:** August 23, 2009, 05:54:43 pm »

Really sorry to hear that. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

BudGirl · « **Reply #15 on:** August 23, 2009, 08:50:08 pm »

So sorry to hear that. If you ever need anything in Houston, just let me know.

94CougarGrad · « **Reply #16 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:16:55 pm »

Wild Dog, I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself as best as you can.

Limey · « **Reply #17 on:** August 24, 2009, 09:21:51 am »

My heartfelt best wishes to you. As someone who's recently been through this (albeit, luckily, sans offspring), I can tell you that it's a roller coaster of emotions, but it does get better. Feel free to PM me if you need to chat.

Mr. Happy · « **Reply #18 on:** August 24, 2009, 01:05:07 pm »

Quote from: Limey on August 24, 2009, 09:21:51 am

My heartfelt best wishes to you. As someone who's recently been through this (albeit, luckily, sans offspring), I can tell you that it's a roller coaster of emotions, but it does get better. Feel free to PM me if you need to chat.

Same here, WD. Having done it twice, both with and without offspring (honk if you've ever been married to Mr. Happy), I'm a vet. Eat, Drink and Remarry.

Jose Cruz III · « **Reply #19 on:** August 24, 2009, 06:08:44 pm »

Best wishes, dude.

Outlawscotty · « **Reply #20 on:** September 15, 2009, 09:39:57 pm »

Quote from: Wild Dog on August 23, 2009, 09:06:33 am

Sorry folks. After trying for too long and not succeeding, my wife and I are seperating. She and the kids are moving to Houston today and it's my last day to spend with my son for a while. I can live without her but being apart from him is ripping my heart apart. This thread should probably be in the Beer and Queso but I didn't want anyone waiting around for me. I'll be back next Sunday and it should be a good one since I have nothing to do all week but research.

ich dich auch, you're like H1N1. Sucks for us both, but in the long run......

Mr. Happy · « **Reply #21 on:** September 16, 2009, 10:34:47 am »

Quote from: outlawscotty on September 15, 2009, 09:39:57 pm

ich dich auch, you're like H1N1. Sucks for us both, but in the long run......

Wilddog: Best advice I can give is to not speak ill of your son's mother to him.

Reuben · « **Reply #22 on:** September 16, 2009, 11:38:04 am »

Quote from: Mr. Happy on September 16, 2009, 10:34:47 am

Wilddog: Best advice I can give is to not speak ill of your son's mother to him.

Um, I think you Cabrera'd yourself there, Mr. Happy. In all seriousness, though, it is excellent and very important advice. I was already 15 when my parents split up, but I am really glad that neither parent spoke badly of the other in front of me and especially my brother, who was just 7 at the time.

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