I appreciate your desire to get involved here, and you've said that you were a lurker since OWA. If that's true, then you should already know this. It can be a difficult lesson to learn, but please - spend some more time with the concept of
READ MORE. POST LESS.
It will stand you in good stead. Everyone will be a lot happier, including you.
This is likely to be the gentlest encounter you'll get here, by the way.