Coach, I'm deeply and profoundly saddened by this news. I take divorces somewhat hard, probably because I still can't believe it has happened twice to me. However, in your time of troubles, when all seems dark and hopeless, understand that you have a treasure trove of good friends both here and beyond on whom you can depend. I know you to be a very good friend to others, always willing to help someone out. I admire that about you. Always have. Now, it's time to rely a little on others, and that's okay, because it won't take long for you to be back in some semblance of good spirits. Love yourself. Take care of yourself. That's what is most important right now. The stuff is, well, stuff, and there will be more of it.