I think the bad part strosrays was referring to was the placenta.
Nope. What I was referring to occurs just before the baby emerges, and is probably best described with an analogy. Let's say you go down to Conn's one day and on an impulse purchase a big side-by-side refrigerator, or maybe a wide screen. Then you go home and wait for it to be delivered. When the delivery/installation guy shows up, he takes one look at your standard 30" wide front doorway and says, "No way this thing is fitting through there." Dammit! You forgot to get a measurement before making your purchase.
The delivery guy is inclined to load the thing back up on his truck and haul ass, but there is no way you are sending it back. You rummage around in your garage and find a crowbar and then, as the somewhat stunned delivery man looks on, you start tearing out the door jamb and trim and stuff. You'll do whatever you have to in order to make the door bigger and make this delivery happen.
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Waldo,
Congratulations to you, and your family.
I have an idea what you have been through. 7 1/2 months into her prenancy with my first son, my wife got toxemia and pre-eclampsia so bad they put her in ICU. A couple of weeks later the doctor said they had to get the baby out, right now. So they induced labor. It took three days, and like everyone else concerned I became totally focused on how much she'd dialated, which is somehing I had never, ever thought about previously. The doctor also told me there was a chance I could lose the baby, or my wife, or both during the delivery. Up to that point I'd been strutting around like the proud expectant father, but now I was freaking out. Actually, I was in a daze, signing all kinds of shit they put in front of me, liability waivers and like that.
Thankfully, everything turned out all right. My wife got through it okay. My son was premature and had fluid in his lungs and a leak in his heart, where a valve hadn't finished forming. And jaundice, I think. They did a minor surgery to fix the valve and had to keep him in neo-natal ICU for five weeks. Despite all that, he recovered completely and is now a 16-year-old, 5' 10", 150 lb. pain in my ass. Who I love anyway, of course, intensely. This is what you have to look forward to.